Hi, I am the father of a 7 year old boy with whom I have always been close and a best friend.? - what do 7 year old boys eat
I have to be in a lot of time over the years to teach him to respect others, they have confidence in themselves, they have problems logically (to the extent permitted by their logic, of course) and so on. The bulk of the training, which it was received by me, use utensils, toilet and shower and brush. Therefore, it is obvious that he never had doubts, nudity or something. I remember that I have always tried to know him indirectly that nothing is more interesting, especially his body, so that later, not too much emphasis on or especially interested or curious about the body. The result was that it was very relaxed about their bodies and not too curious. But I think it's time for him to know that the body is something personal andprivate. I do not want to contradict what I have always tried to teach. I am perplexed and need advice on what to do. And thank you in advance.
Friday, February 12, 2010
What Do 7 Year Old Boys Eat Hi, I Am The Father Of A 7 Year Old Boy With Whom I Have Always Been Close And A Best Friend.?
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My son and I are in the same way! He is 15 now and talk together about everything. The mother, though! Theres been a few times and I am ashamed speechless! lol The product is so close to him and have built a good relationship of trust, love and communication! Now only one step further and begin to teach him to kiss and touch and answer all questions. When talking to him about sex, remember that u make discussion on the safety and security of the same diseases. It is a difficult moment for a father, but I've learned to take everything and talk talk talk! U will stop when they have a question! U wont be confused She knows instinctively that means U! Good luck Dad! U sound like an awesome father!
ReplyDeleteShe looks like a child in their hands:)
ReplyDeleteDo not be nervous, you make it good.
I always thought the point of honesty is the best policy.
I have 3 children 11, 7 and 4 I also have a daughter, 9 There was also a little unsure how some issues sometimes. (first time) as I have with each of them very open and understanding. Do not much about him. Ask what they think. You will not contradict each other with honesty. I invite you to ask questions. I also suggest that a number of smaller settlements talks have a long discussion. He is still young and will lose interest. A small bonus is that conversations always leave the door open. It helps you when I grow up. Good luck and best wishes for you and your child! Hope this helps.
It will grow well and good. u do not worry.
ReplyDeleteOne of the things that a friend of mine once told me that I delayed for a long time, while no one to teach something, followed by the abbreviation
ReplyDeleteKeep It Simple Silly explain what to do freely what he wants in his house when he was just the two of you, but if there are people in your environment requires a degree of modesty.
as my son and that is what we call lingerie. Example'm in the shower, I see through the glass doors. It comes and washes the teeth. Bathrooms also change or something else. It's private time.
ReplyDeleteAh, a nudist, I suppose. If this is the case, then tell him that some people who are offended by nudity and because we have the beliefs of others, like our relationship with clothing is not a bad thing. Congratulations on your child, what life is. Sounds adapted very well.
ReplyDeleteAs it is a boy so young, you show your body can not even by the Spirit, or even placed on the "know" list. I think if you get an example of what it means to set. You know teach, lead example. Furthermore, if circumstances arise that we feel, he must know that your body is personal and private to say. I think that by and by, when the time came to catch up. The emphasis on the care of your body the right nutrition to grow big and strong. One might ask, why? to say because our bodies are very important, and (if religious) God wants respect for the care the same way that we can be happy and healthy. As for changes that could suffer, it is important to address directly the situation. Do not name things, make sure that in order to explain and understand, that are appropriate for their age and maturity. I think if she has a close relationship with him, should not be difficult.
ReplyDeleteA simple form is used to the bits that will be explained in a swimsuit, personal and private, from a certain age, 7 is obvious. It is now time for him to look us in private for adulthood and what should remain private. Women may fear or terror in a year or two, if they need to be seen naked and attentive and respectful of women and girls in nudity. I think he will understand, if not today, in one or two years ..............
ReplyDeleteIt looks as a great parenting.
ReplyDeleteAt 7 clock he will find that you explain exactly what you have said that personal and private. From there, of course, issues that make it easier for you to explain your answer.
I say go with what is your Gutt significant to say.
Good for you. I brought my daughter in a very similar. There are sometimes things happen if I gave corrections. As:
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in the middle of the 1st Class, at dinner, her mother, who had picked up from school that day, told me in German (my daughter) does not mean that the teacher had told him that our daughter had her team to a child in the same class shown in the bathroom. And better to speak for him.
I waited until he finished eating, they sat back and calmly asked
So, honey, how was your day today?
Nice.
Well, yes, has something unusual is happening today?
No
Hmmm. Does this mean that you show your pussy, the man in the bathroom all day?
Total Impact on the face.
I leave it running in about ten seconds. Then:
You know, I do not think it was a great thing, but as they grow, you'll see that I am a father, very unusual.
Here's the problem. This child will go home and tell their parents about you and what you have done.
They say: "Iterrible daughter does not want to play more with him. "
And you lose your friends. Is this what you want?
No!
Well, in this case, I recommend do not do that.
And never again.
I asked him three months later, when I finally put on him:
Oh. By the way, you have found your materials back to one of the boys?
His answer, vehemently: No Dad, you want to lose my friends.
I: OK, just the review book. :-)
Perhaps you could begin with the words: "Now that its gettin to that age differently with our bodies and learn to respect others and respect for ourselves, if we want to be treated with respect." Such a thing, but it also teaches that each person is his body is a temple and now its time to keep private. You can use examples like going to school is where all the clothes and wear of respect for each body part to another, and so, and the difference between school and go swimming .. I do not know, I have no children, so I hope this can help.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you've done a great job as the father of eleven children, five biologically, I always put stess on honesty and loyalty, if you're honest with your child again, to be honest with yourself and others, I think we can explain indicate that his organs are not all naked in public, because that would violate the norms of society, can be a nudist camp markers to use some adults to accompany their children, nudist camp wear, although at a public place, but may in a private camp.The all your child have an understanding
ReplyDeleteif we be naked, or even if you are with others outside their family, all live in this world that we conduct, operate only one of them, l do one of the company, unwritten law, hard. Good luck